This cannot be stressed enough. You are very much ON YOUR OWN regarding verification of others you are matched with.
Bosunaire.com highly recommends some type of face-to-face real-time video as a basis for a relationship with another Bo. If a BnB is involved, face-to-face real-time video should include enough real-time video of the residence to confirm the host is indeed at the address they are specifying
Payments are handled outside of Bosunaire.com. Remember, you're on your own. Bosunaire.com cannot refund you. Bosunaire.com cannot verify details of the person on the other side of your match. Bosunaire is simply a tool to connect people. After connecting, you're on your own.